Before you start
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Book a ConsultationBefore the appointment or filing
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You are considering divorce or have received divorce papers.
You need to prepare for a lawyer consultation, settlement discussion, Family Advocate process, or court filing.
Not For
- Personalised advice on settlement value, forfeiture, maintenance, relocation, or parenting disputes.
- Domestic violence or urgent child-safety emergencies.
Documents
- ID documents
- Marriage certificate
- Antenuptial contract
- Children's birth certificates
- Income and expense records
- Bank statements
- Property and vehicle records
- Pension and policy information
- Existing orders or agreements
Timeline
- Before consultation: collect marriage, child, financial, and property records.
- Before filing or response: confirm service details and disputed issues.
- During process: track response, plea, set-down, Family Advocate, and settlement dates.
- After order: store the decree, settlement agreement, and parenting or maintenance orders.
Tips
- Keep child-focused records separate from financial records.
- Do not sign settlement terms until you understand pension, property, maintenance, and tax effects.
- Use a single monthly budget for child and household expenses.
- Ask early if the Family Advocate may be involved where children are affected.
Warning Signs
- There is family violence, child safety risk, relocation risk, or threats to remove children.
- One spouse controls all documents or finances.
- Assets are being sold, hidden, or moved.
- You have been served with papers and a response period is running.