Before you contact a lawyer 0/3 completed Identify the divorce stage Write whether you are considering divorce, received papers, negotiating settlement, dealing with children, or responding to a court step. Not started › Record family details List spouses, children, living arrangements, school details, medical needs, maintenance, and urgent concerns. Not started › Record property and money issues List home, vehicles, bank accounts, pensions, policies, debts, businesses, trusts, and monthly expenses. Not started ›
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Book a ConsultationBefore the consultation 0/4 completed Collect status documents Prepare ID documents, marriage certificate, antenuptial contract, birth certificates, existing court orders, and any divorce papers. Not started › Collect financial records Prepare payslips, bank statements, tax records, expense schedule, debts, policies, pension details, and proof of payments. Not started › Collect parenting records Prepare school records, medical records, care arrangements, contact patterns, parenting plans, and child-related expenses. Not started › Prepare settlement questions List what is agreed, disputed, urgent, unknown, and what outcome you want to discuss. Not started ›
During the consultation 0/3 completed Ask about route Ask whether negotiation, mediation, uncontested divorce, contested divorce, maintenance court, or urgent application is likely to be discussed. Not started › Ask what documents are missing Confirm missing marriage, financial, parenting, property, pension, or court documents. Not started › Ask about fees and next step Confirm consultation fee, first step, expected documents, communication process, and urgent dates. Not started ›
Calendar dates Track court, mediation, maintenance, disclosure, payment, school, and follow-up dates. Not started › Update the document pack Add new bank statements, orders, messages, school records, payment proof, and settlement drafts as they arrive. Not started › Do not sign under pressure Get advice before signing settlement, parenting, maintenance, or property terms you do not understand. Not started ›
When It Applies You are preparing to speak to a lawyer about divorce, separation, parenting, maintenance, or settlement.
You need to organise facts and documents before choosing a divorce lawyer or family-law route.
Not For Emergency safety issues, child abduction, or urgent court relief without immediate help. Documents ID documents Marriage certificate Antenuptial contract Birth certificates Divorce papers Existing court orders Payslips Bank statements Expense schedule Property records Pension or policy records Parenting records Timeline Before consultation: identify stage, urgent dates, and core documents. During consultation: confirm route and missing records. After consultation: calendar dates and update financial/parenting records. Before signing: check settlement wording carefully. Tips Separate child, money, property, and process questions. Bring income and expense records for maintenance questions. Keep communication factual and date-based. Tell the lawyer immediately if safety, relocation, or withheld-contact risk exists. Warning Signs There is domestic violence, child-safety, relocation, or withheld-contact risk. Court papers or maintenance dates are close. A settlement is being pushed urgently. Property, pension, trust, company, or foreign-asset issues are involved.