Before you contact a lawyer 0/3 completed Identify the current order Write the court, case number, order date, amount, payment date, medical or school-cost terms, arrears position, and who pays whom. Not started › Write what changed Record income changes, job loss, new work, disability, new dependants, school changes, medical needs, relocation, or changed care arrangements. Not started › Mark urgent dates List court dates, payment dates, arrears demands, employer deduction dates, sheriff steps, or deadlines on court documents. Not started ›
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Book a ConsultationBefore the consultation 0/4 completed Collect court records Prepare the existing order, prior applications, variation or discharge forms, summonses, warrants, court correspondence, and settlement notes. Not started › Collect money records Prepare payslips, bank statements, tax records, UIF records, expense proof, school accounts, medical accounts, rent, transport, and debt records. Not started › Collect child records Prepare birth certificates, school records, medical-aid details, care arrangements, contact arrangements, and child-related expense notes. Not started › Prepare variation questions Ask what facts justify variation, what proof is missing, whether arrears are separate, and what should be filed or served next. Not started ›
When It Applies You need to ask whether an existing maintenance order should be changed, substituted, discharged, enforced, or responded to.
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Not For Changing a court order without legal process, calculating final maintenance, drafting court papers, or ignoring an existing order. Documents Existing maintenance order Case number Birth certificates Income proof Bank statements Expense proof Payment history Court forms Messages Question list Timeline Immediately: identify the current order and what changed. Before consultation: collect court, money, child, and payment records. During consultation: confirm the binding order, route, and evidence gaps. Afterwards: track payments and calendar every court date. Tips Do not treat a changed income as automatically changing the order. Separate arrears from future maintenance questions. Use dated expense records, not estimates only. Keep proof of every payment and court submission. Warning Signs A warrant, attachment, employer deduction, or court date is close. Payments have stopped without a changed order. Income records are incomplete. The matter affects school fees, medical care, housing, or child safety.